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How can I tell if my child is struggling with English?

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How can I tell if my child is struggling with English?

The signs worth noticing, the most common causes and what you can do at home and together with the teacher.

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SHORT ANSWER

A child who is struggling with English usually shows it through avoiding homework, falling marks, anxiety before lessons or phrases such as "I don't understand anything". If the signs keep coming back for several weeks, the first step is a calm talk with your child and letting the teacher know, so that the exact gap can be identified.

Every child has good weeks and bad weeks. A demanding unit or one low test mark does not necessarily mean there is a problem. When the same signs appear again and again, however, it is worth looking at what is going on before the gap grows and your child loses interest in the lessons.

Child struggling with English homework while their mother looks on
Difficulties often show up first in homework

The signs worth noticing

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Avoids homework

Leaves it until last, rushes through it or says there was none.

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Marks are dropping

Lower results in tests or at school that cannot be explained by one bad day.

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Gets anxious before lessons

Complaints or low mood just before leaving for the language school.

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Does not speak in English

Avoids answering out loud, even to simple questions.

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Forgets what was learnt

Cannot remember words and rules they knew the week before.

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"It's boring"

A lack of interest can hide a difficulty, or material that is too easy for their level.

Why your child may be struggling

Possible causeWhat you noticeWhat helps
Gaps in the basicsStruggles with material that builds on earlier unitsRevising those specific points in agreement with the teacher
A level that does not suit themFinds the lessons too difficult or too easyA talk with the teacher about whether the class matches their level
AbsencesGaps after illness or a breakCatching up on the material that was missed
Little contact with the languageUnderstands in class but does not remember afterwardsMore English in everyday life, through videos and cartoons
Tiredness and workloadFinds it hard to concentrateBetter organisation of the weekly schedule

If the difficulties also appear in Greek, for example in reading or spelling, discuss it with the school teacher as well. They can refer you for an assessment by a specialist if needed.

Father calmly talking with his son about English lessons
A calm conversation often reveals exactly what your child finds difficult

What you can do at home

  • Talk calmly with your childAsk what exactly they find difficult, without comparing them to siblings or classmates.
  • Let the teacher knowTell the teacher if your child finds the lessons too difficult or too easy. A child who does not want to draw attention may never say so in class.
  • Check the preparation, not the contentYou do not need to teach. It is enough to make sure the homework is done and the books and notebooks are in the school bag.
  • Increase contact with the languageEducational videos and episodes of their favourite cartoons in English, and later series and films.
Don't speak English? That's fine. A parent's role is to support and keep the teacher informed, not to teach. Help with English for your child comes through working together with the teacher. You will find more in our Frequently Asked Questions.

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In a small class the teacher sees early on where each child gets stuck

Support within the class

At The English School classes are small, so that the teacher can follow each child individually, spot difficulties early and adapt the teaching. When a student is struggling, supplementary lessons are available so that they can better organise what they have learnt and practise the points they find difficult.

If your child has to miss a lesson, they can join it online from a computer, tablet or mobile phone, and the teacher makes sure any gaps are covered. If you are considering private lessons, first read the comparison private English lessons or a language school.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I know if my child is struggling with English?
The most common signs are avoiding homework, falling marks, anxiety before lessons, refusing to speak in English and quickly forgetting what was learnt. A single low test mark is not enough. When the signs keep recurring for several weeks, however, it is worth talking with your child and their teacher.
What should I do if my child is doing poorly in English?
Start with the teacher, to find out where the difficulty lies: gaps in the basics, absences, a level that does not suit them or tiredness. The solution depends on the cause and may be targeted revision, supplementary support or better organisation of the schedule.
Can I help my child if I don't speak English?
Yes. It is not a parent's job to teach the material. You can make sure homework gets done, tell the teacher what you notice and encourage your child to watch videos, cartoons and later series in English.
Does a struggling child need private lessons?
Not necessarily. Often the difficulty concerns specific points and can be covered with targeted English support agreed with the class teacher. At The English School, when a student is struggling, supplementary lessons are available.
When should I talk to the teacher?
As soon as you see the same signs recurring, or when your child makes a comment about the lessons, positive or negative. The sooner the teacher knows, the easier it is to cover a gap before it grows.
Could my child be bored because the lessons are too easy?
Yes, a lack of interest does not always mean difficulty. Sometimes a child finds the material too easy for their level. In both cases, letting the teacher know helps adapt the work to their needs.

Tell us about your child

Tell us what you notice and together we will see where the difficulty lies and how it can be addressed.

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